My Life Before Discovering Tantra
- I lived more in my head, with stress and a tendency to control.
- I often felt insecure and uncomfortable during intimacy and sexuality.
- I still struggled with shame and fear and didn’t feel completely free in my body.
- My (sexual) energy fluctuated frequently, which impacted my entire (creative) life.
- I regularly numbed myself with alcohol, drugs, and other substances to suppress my feelings.
- I often wore a mask and found it difficult to fully open up.
- Deep down, I knew there was much more potential within me, but somehow I always sabotaged myself.
- Sex was more about physical pleasure, focused on short-term gratification with the goal of orgasm and/or relaxation.
- I now live from my whole body, my heart is wide open, and I feel so much more depth.
- I am fully present during intimacy, I know exactly what I do and don’t like, and I can completely surrender and merge with my partner.
- I feel internally free, confident, and I enjoy with my entire body.
- I now know how to activate and use my sexual energy to transform blockages.
- I feel high on life and no longer use any numbing substances because I want to feel everything to the fullest.
- I now enjoy pure, authentic connections the most, where I fully show myself — in all vulnerability, nakedness, and openness.
- I truly feel that I’m standing in my power, getting the most out of each day with so much passion, joy, and meaning.
- These days, I experience every day as MAKING LOVE TO LIFE! And when I’m intimate with a partner, I reach places where time doesn’t exist, with full-body orgasms, immense love, and pleasure. "MERGING!" 😍